EverydayLund

So, your Valentines-date didn’t go so well? Did you propose to her, did you get wasted, would she never just stop talking(!), did you “forget” your wallet or did your date spend too much time on the smartphone??

No worries, we’ll help you recover!

First of all, go easy on yourself! Everyone has bad dates sometimes. And you can learn from the bad dates! 

Secondly, laugh about it! It’s not like your life is over just from a bad date! But wait a while before going out on a date again, so you have time to recover and feel good about yourself and the whole dating situation again.

Thirdly, eat icecreme, greasy french fries and all you favorite candy! Makes it easier to laugh about the crappy date!

When you feel good again, you need to figure out if you are prepared to go on a date with the same person again, or not. If you are, then you need to do some damage-control!

It’s important that you don’t go call him/her imediately! The worst thing, is to seem needy!! And come to terms that it might not be that bad. And make sure to be yourself. One of the worst things to do is to act differently than you normal self.. Very cliche, but still oh so very true!

When you meet your date again, make sure to make a good second impression. Be confident, apologize if necessary, and for Gods sake, brush your teeth!

If the date is really that bad again, sabotage it! Start talking, and literally never stop! Or ask him/her if they have been adopted by aliens too.. Or simply just tell the truth - that this isn’t working for you!

Helpfull? Let us know!